Images That Hurt Too Much

Image from THTK (Too Hard To Keep). Via PetaPixel.com.

This morning on the photography site PetaPixel, I learned about a online collection called THTK (short for Too Hard to Keep), curated by Jason Lazarus, an adjunct professor at the School of the Art Institute, Chicago.

The story link is here, but a caution: Although most of it is not graphic, the material is definitely disturbing. 

Lazarus collects images that people can’t bear to live with anymore. In some the pain is obvious —  a building falling to the wrecking ball, a family at the bedside of a desperately ill relative. Others disturb by implication — scenes of cluttered, chaotic rooms hinting at some offstage crisis.

Why do we take photos, why do we keep them?

Maybe some images should never be made at all. (Personally I will never think it’s a good idea to photograph an open coffin at a wake. I don’t care if the Victorians did it. I bet some Victorians didn’t like it, either.)

Yet even as I write that, I realize that painful images can be an act of bearing witness, fulfilling important human and historical needs. And even ostensibly happy images hold potential pain as life unfolds.

But what do you think? Have you ever possessed a photo that harmed your peace of mind? And should it be kept, or destroyed, or passed on to someone else?

 

 


Musical Memories: Songs of Irish Children

In honor of St. Patrick’s Day here’s a special moment from Columbia’s live recording of an early 1960s Clancy Brothers concert at Carnegie Hall.

This clip revisits the unforgettable “Children’s Medley,” wherein the group shares an encyclopedia of traditional songs sung by Irish kids. They run the gamut of funny, vulgar, angry and even a bit mysterious. Clocking in at 12 minutes plus, it’s a fascinating journey, fantastically performed.

Happy St. Patrick’s Day!


Today’s Official Senior Moment

Via TheFineBros YouTube series of kids reacting to things:

!!!Kids react to VCRs!!!

And they are completely adorable. Even if they make me feel completely ancient.


The Bystanders’ Tale, With Second Thoughts

Kitty Genovese, the Queens bartender whose 1964 murder became a symbol of modern apathy and alienation. Photo: AP

Kitty Genovese, the Queens bartender whose 1964 murder became a symbol of modern apathy and alienation. Photo: AP

Kitty Genovese, rest her soul, would be 80 years old this July. Instead, she ran into a serial rapist-murderer on her way home from work on this day in 1964, and became a symbol. The influential New York Times coverage of her murder, spearheaded by then-metro editor A.M. Rosenthal, framed it indelibly as a crime of apathy as well as violence.

But the famous story of the 38 uncaring witnesses in Queens is not completely true. Yes, two in particular would qualify as villains in this piece. But of all the dozens of potential Good Samaritans, it transpired very few heard the struggles clearly enough to understand their seriousness. As it was, one neighbor shouted from his window at Genovese’s attacker, driving him temporarily away. Two others called the police. And Sophia Farrar, far from cowering behind a closed door, left her apartment to try to help Genovese, who was lying in Farrar’s arms when the ambulance came. A 2014 review of the case by Nicholas Lemann in The New Yorker is interesting reading, and recommended.

To me what bugs the most about the legend is its vision of city dwellers as a bunch of urban zombies jammed uncaringly together. Why, somebody could be murdered right in front of them and they wouldn’t lift a finger! The uncritical belief that every single one of Genovese’s neighbors turned over on their pillows and went back to sleep always seemed odd to me, given my mother’s account of her Greenpoint girlhood, where a night out meant risking the window thrown open, the nosy neighbor’s pointed query: “Coming in a bit late, aren’t ya?”

So in addition to noting the genuine advances that resulted — the birth of New York’s 911 system is the major example – I’d also like to remember the neighbors whose actions remained unsung for decades. They reflect the outer boroughs of today and of my parents’ day – places where people are simply people, for bad and, yes, for good too.


New Database: Lansingburgh (NY) Marriages

Bill McGrath, project coordinator for the Troy (N.Y.) Irish Genealogy Society, announces another project that digitizes a valuable resource compiled decades ago:

Marriage Notices Appearing in Lansingburgh Newspapers 1787 – 1895

This is an index to 2,712 marriage notices published in ten different Lansingburgh, New York newspapers from 1787 to 1895, including 5,424 names. The original index was created by Troy Public Library staff in 1938-39. The TIGS scan of this book makes these records available online.

Lansingburgh newspapers reflected in the index include American Spy, Federal Herald, Lansingburgh Advertiser, Lansingburgh Chronicle, Lansingburgh Courier, Lansingburgh Democrat, Lansingburgh Gazette, Lansingburgh Daily Gazette, Lansingburgh Times and Northern Centinel. The majority of the notices pre-date New York State’s 1880 law mandating civil registration of vital events, so this index is extremely important for anyone seeking evidence of early-era marriages.

Most entries show:

  • Name of bride and groom;
  • Residence of bride and groom;
  • Date of marriage;
  • Names of newspapers reporting the marriage;
  • Date, newspaper name and column number where notice appeared.

Unsurprisingly, Lansingburgh is most often mentioned, with 1,708 entries. But more than two hundred other cities, towns and villages throughout New York State are represented, along with 33 other U.S. states and five foreign countries. (More than 1200 names gave no indication of residence.) Here are the localities other than Lansingburgh with the highest numbers:

Troy 483
Waterford 150
Schaghticoke 149
Pittstown 144
Albany 117
New York City 93
Brunswick 77
Cohoes 74
Hoosick 43
Cambridge 42
Stillwater 28
Easton 26
Halfmoon 24
West Troy 22

(And if you, like me, have ancestors in West Troy, it’s worth noting that in addition to the 22 West Troy entries in the chart above, there are 12  for Watervliet, the name under which West Troy was known from 1896 on.)

As McGrath notes, Troy ranked fourth among U.S. cities in per-capita wealth at the time of the 1840 federal census, and the breadth of these marriage notices no doubt reflects this area’s role as an economic magnet in the first half of the 19th century.

This latest database joins a constellation of projects on the TIGS website containing nearly 300,000 entries, reflecting people of both Irish and non-Irish descent. Again, if you have ancestry in the Capital District of New York State and you haven’t found the Troy Irish Genealogy site yet, you are missing out!


Press Release: Irish Genealogy Tour

This dropped into my inbox from the Irish Family History Foundation. You might be near one of these locations, so take a look if you are interested in Irish or Scots-Irish research.

Ulster Historical Foundation Genealogy Lecture Tour, 14-30 March 2015

 Staff from the Ulster Historical Foundation will soon be heading across the Atlantic to deliver their annual series of lectures in North America. They will be speaking in the locations listed below, between the dates 14 and 30 March. They are looking forward to meeting supporters and keen genealogists interested in finding their Irish and Scots-Irish ancestors. We hope you might be able to avail of an opportunity to take part in their programmes.

 Ottawa, ONT, Saturday 14 March (9:00 am to 5:00pm)

Host organisation:  British Isles Family History Society of Greater Ottawa (BIFHSGO)
To register please email: down7777@gmail.com or Tel: 613-741-1463
Further Details: http://www.bifhsgo.ca/eventListings.php?nm=127

State College, PA, Sunday 15 March (1:00pm to 4:00pm)

Host organisation:   Centre County Genealogical Society
Registration Details: Prior to Mar. 5th: $40.00 per person
Send your name and registration check (made out to CCGS) to Vicky Droll, 734 McKee St, State College, PA 16803.

After Mar. 5th or at the door: $50.00 per person
Further details: http://centrecountygenealogy.org/

Staunton, VA, Monday 16 March (1:00pm to 5:00pm, 6:30pm to 8:30pm)

Host organisations: Staunton Public Library, co-sponsored by the Augusta County
Registration Details: To register please email davidsonmk@ci.staunton.va.us

Williamsburg, VA, Tuesday 17 March (10:00am to 2:30pm, 7:00pm to 8:00pm)

Host Organisations: Williamsburg Family History Center, Williamsburg Regional Library, and Ford’s Colony Genealogy Club
To register phone contact:  Lise Embley, mobile: 757-903-5706
For more information:

https://familysearch.org/learn/wiki/en/Williamsburg_Virginia_Family_History_Center

Winchester, VA, Wednesday 18 March (6:00pm to 9:00pm)

Host organisation: Museum of the Shenandoah Valley/Shenandoah Valley Genealogical Society
To register:  Deborah Hilty, Curator of Education, Tel: 540-662-1473 @ 224 –Office, Email: dhilty@themsv.org

Registration Details:  MSV & SVGS members $5.00; all others $10.00, pre-register or reserve tickets in advance, visit:

http://themsv.org/event/finding-your-irish-and-scots-irish-ancestors-practical-genealogical-tutorial

OR: Call 540-662-1473, ext. 240. Any remaining tickets will be available beginning at 10 a.m. day of the event.

Maryville, TN, Friday 20 March (8:30am to 4:00pm)

Host organisations:   Blount County Public Library & and the Blount County Friends of the Library
Contact person: Joan VanSickle Sloan, Community Outreach Coordinator

Phone: (865) 273-1408 or 982-098, Email: jsloan@blounttn.org
Web site: http://www.blountlibrary.org

Registration Details: Cost for the workshop is $25, with an option of lunch for an additional $10.
Make checks payable to the Blount County Friends of the Library (BCFOL). The registration form is available on the library website at http://www.blountlibrary.org or at the Reference Desk. The registration deadline is Friday, March 6, and money and registration must be at the library by that date.
Enrollment is limited and will be on a first come, first served basis.

Boston, MA, Saturday 21 March (9:00am to 5:00pm)

Host organisation: New England Historic Genealogical Society
Contact information: Mobile: 603-686-6784, Email: gmorse@nehgs.org
Registration Details:   http://shop.americanancestors.org/products/researching-your-irish-and-scots-irish-ancestors-strategies-for-success

Fairfield, CT, Sunday 22 March (1:00pm to 5:00pm)
Host organisations:   Feile, Inc. and Fréamh Éireann Genealogy Group
Contact information: Tel: 203-293-8090, Email: gacevent@gmail.com
Registration Details:   $25 payable to “Feile, Inc.” and sent to:

Mary Adams-Arroyo, 221 McGrath Court, Stratford, CT 06615

Pittsburgh, PA, Monday 23 March (10:30am to 4:30pm)

Host organisations:  Heinz History Center & Westmoreland Historical Society
Registration details: Admission: $25 for members, $35 for non-members
As space is limited, please register by calling 412-454-6361 or by visiting http://www.heinzhistorycenter.org/events/irish-genealogy-workshop

Green Bay, WI, Wednesday 25 March (5:00pm to 8:30pm)

Host organisation:  Brown County Library
Location of programme: 515 Pine Street, Green Bay, WI 54301
Main contact person: Sue Lagerman or Mary Jane Herber
Registration Details:   To register please call 920-448-5815

Moscow, ID, Friday 27 March (11:30am to 4:00pm)

Host organisation: Latah County Historical Society
Contact information  Mobile: 509-230-8160, Email: mwack@pull.twcbc.com
Registration Details: To reserve a seat, pre-register online at: http://uhfonthepalouse.com/
Other information:   Registration fee of $35 includes lunch and workshop materials. Pre-register online; pay at workshop. Checks payable to Latah County Historical Society.

Yakima, WA, Saturday 28 March (8:30am to 4:00pm)

Host organisation: The Yakima Valley Genealogical Society
Location of programme:   Mt Olive Lutheran Church

7809 Tieton Drive, Yakima, WA 98908

Registration Details:   Cost: $40.00 per person (includes lunch & handouts)
To download the registration form, please visit http://www.yvgs.net/

Oakland, CA, Sunday 29 March (7:30am to 5:00pm)

Host organisation: California Genealogical Society
Contact information: Mobile: 415-317-3094, Email: tcox@californiaancestors.org
Registration Details: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/scots-irish-seminar-tickets-15123324270

Medford, OR, Monday 30 March (8:30am to 5:00pm)

Host organisation: Rogue Valley Genealogical Society
Contact information: Tel: 541-512-2340, (library phone number), Email: aayres@aol.com
Registration Details: Contact the library or society at: 541-512-2340 or online at http://www.rvgslibrary.org for a copy of the day’s schedule and registration form. Early bird discount by March 15.

 

If you have any queries, please email: enquiry@uhf.org.uk

– Ulster Historical Foundation

 


Just for Fun: Four Yorkshiremen

… Because at this time of year in the Northern Hemisphere, adults just won’t shut up about how much tougher snow days (and all days) were when THEY were kids.


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